Tuesday

Consideration, Liberation and Discontent

Hello my fellow sisters in marriage,
My husband has been so wonderful this past few days, it’s unbelievable. The other day, he came home and say how clean the house was, how pressed his clothes were and how polished his shoes looked. He looked at me, smiled very indulgently and told me so sweetly that I was becoming efficient. . . too efficient, he fears the corporate world will come knocking. I laughed him off. . . I mean I know he is only trying to boast my ego (Goodness, I am so blessed to have him in my life).

Anyway, this whole corporate world to me thinking. . . How is it like for women in that world. . . A man’s world. I imagined it would be hard because these women libber always talk about how things aren’t easy for them. Ever since the Psychology and Psychiatrist issues, I have decided never to take their word for it anymore and so with my husband’s permission, I decided to look into and my the things I found out. . . Oh my heavens, my fellow sisters in marriage, they were spectacular. Men are so generous! They have special rules and regulations to accommodate us and I am going to share these rules with you, so you see how wrong these women libbers are.

How to Pick Efficient Female Workers
1. Pick young married women. They usually have more of a sense of responsibility than their unmarried sisters, they're less likely to be flirtatious, they need the work or they wouldn't be doing it, they still have the pep and interest to work hard and to deal with the public efficiently.

2. When you have to use older women, try to get ones who have worked outside the home at some time in their lives. Older women who have never contacted the public have a hard time adapting themselves and are inclined to be cantankerous and fussy. It's always well to impress upon older women the importance of friendliness and courtesy.

3. General experience indicates that "husky" girls - those who are just a little on the heavy side are more even tempered and efficient than their underweight sisters.

4. Retain a physician to give each woman you hire a special physical examination - one covering female conditions. This step not only protects the property against the possibilities of lawsuit, but reveals whether the employee-to-be has any female weaknesses which would make her mentally or physically unfit for the job.

5. Stress at the outset the importance of time; the fact that a minute or two lost here and there makes serious inroads on schedules. Until this point is gotten across, service is likely to be slowed up.

6. Give the female employee a definite day-long schedule of duties so that they'll keep busy without bothering the management for instructions every few minutes. Numerous properties say that women make excellent workers when they have their jobs cut out for them, but that they lack initiative in finding work themselves.

7. Whenever possible, let the inside employee change from one job to another at some time during the day. Women are inclined to be less nervous and happier with change.

8. Give every girl an adequate number of rest periods during the day. You have to make some allowances for feminine psychology. A girl has more confidence and is more efficient if she can keep her hair tidied, apply fresh lipstick and wash her hands several times a day.

9. Be tactful when issuing instructions or in making criticisms. Women are often sensitive; they can't shrug off harsh words the way men do. Never ridicule a woman - it breaks her spirit and cuts off her efficiency.

10. Be reasonably considerate about using strong language around women. Even though a girl's husband or father may swear vociferously, she'll grow to dislike a place of business where she hears too much of this.

11. Get enough size variety in operator's uniforms so that each girl can have a proper fit. This point can't be stressed too much in keeping women happy

Oh my fellow sisters in Marriage, How happy I was too read this because it is exactly the same consideration my husband gives me a home...especially number six. Which brings me to the main point of today's post...why do you need to go work when you can get the same experiences AND better considerations at home? Why argue with your husband when he tells you to quit you job and have housewifery career?




Think about it Fellow Wives before you make the decision to leave the comfort of your home, to go do the same thing somewhere less comfortable, A place where your husband isn’t going to be there to pat you on the head.

May our husband be bestowed enough patience to be considerate of us despite our ungratefulness.

A Good Naija Wife.