First I want to apologize that it took me forever to post an update. I had to transcribe the conversation I had with this woman from the tape recorder my husband makes me carry around so at the end of the day he can listen to my conversations and critique it. He is very generous that way, I honestly don’t know how he manages to find the time seeing as how he a busy man.
Anyway, this will posted in the exact manner as it was spoken.
Re: Asylum Seeking Girlfriend
His new woman is an asylum seeker? Ah, so you had this ace up your sleeve yet you carried on like you had no bargaining chip. Honestly, women surprise me sometimes. Forget cooking for him, learning his language or trying to become a Nigerian by force. . . it is time to think outside the box. You gotta set yourself apart from the rest, instead of trying to conform. . . show him how unique you are.
Do you have a guy friend or a brother who won't mind helping a foreigner get her papers via marriage? If you do, good. . . the sooner the better but if you don't, start looking, some of them will do it for money but I don't think this will be an issue for you seeing as you are working yourself to the bone. . . 80 to 90hrs, right? Perfect! I believe once you do this. . . helping your husband's girlfriend get her papers, he'll know for sure that you love him. . . just in case marrying him at 17, having his baby, working 1000hrs a week to put a roof over his head, clothes on his back, food in his bottomless pit of a stomach, isn't enough proof that you. Trust me, it would put you back in the race, even on the lead for his affection because the sad truth is not many Nigerian women will do that.
Please feel free to add you own valuable advice, remember it is our Naija Brother. . . a man like our Naija husbands who benefits.
I'll post more soon, now I have to get my husband's hot blanket ready.
Blessings upon our Husbands.
A Good Naija Wife
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